What I've learned...so far

I actually started reading the "7 Habits" book yesterday. I'm as shocked as you are. I really didn't think I would do it, but my post yesterday really inspired me. I guess I was finally ready to accept that maybe I didn't have all the answers.

I am actually loving the book.

I'm already on p.96!

I've learned so far that I am emotionally immature and that I am reactive instead of proactive. Nice.

I'm not bothered by it though. I'm just like, okay that's not good.

Maybe I should uh work on that.

I was talking with Andy yesterday, before I found out that I'm reactive instead of proactive, I was just emotionally immature at that point, anyway I was telling him about what I'd discovered and I could tell he was trying to gage my reaction, see he knows I'm reactive, before he said anything.

I started laughing.

He looked at me funny and I said you know, it is what it is. I'm going to start working on that.

It was so wonderful to share this with my husband and to talk and listen to each other! I told him I was going to blog about being emotionally immature and he looked at me horrified!

I don't see the big deal.

Here's the shocker, I'm not afraid to admit that I have weaknesses...gasp!

Now, there's no way I would have been able to admit this before,

remember emotionally immature.

But, as I was telling Andy, blogging is cathartic.

It's not nearly as confrontational (or embarrassing) as saying it out loud.

I hope you take this in the spirit meant.

Laugh, it's okay, I am.